What to Do If I Fall in Love with A Camgirl?

Camgirls are now all over the internet. So many different cyber sex chat websites offer these beauties to view. Some camgirls will even stream across multiple adult chat rooms. And one of the most unique things about the camgirl profession is they don't discriminate that much. There are camgirls from just about every walk of life on the internet. What this results in is that people will sometimes fall in love with camgirls when they find one that matches their likes/desires perfectly.

When you fall in love with a camgirl what do you do? Well, that can be a bit difficult but we are going to help you work through it.

Is It Love Or Lust?

This camgirl that you think you may have fallen in love with. Is the camgirl someone you have spent much time talking to or watched for long at all? If the answer is no, spend a decent amount of time with her before reading the rest of this article. Many camgirls put on a stage act so that they appear one way when they film. Some will even change this based on how they are filming or how they perceive you to be responding.

You want to truly spend some time around the camgirl before you determine that you are falling in love with them. Many guys (and girls too) fall in love with camgirls because they are attractive and say the right few things during a virtual sex chat. Next show, they are someone completely different though.

Try Having A Private

The way a camgirl will act in front of other customers is different from how she will act with you one on one. But in addition to that, camgirls won't focus their attention on you and truly talk to you unless you are in a private session. So a private session is mandatory to determine whether or not you love a camgirl.

During the private session DO NOT mention anything about loving her. Have cybersex or virtual sex and talk to her a little.

The private has another purpose though, to put you in her eyes. With a private you are making her aware that you are interested in talking with her. She will know who you are from now on. So make a good impression.

Move Beyond The Camming Platform

Most camgirls have a way that you can move beyond the camming platform. One of the best ways is to start with phone or skype sessions. This will get you more personal time with her. But the best way possible is to text with her. The best camgirls have a one time rate for texting. You pay once and you can text until they change their phone.

This being in mind, remember that she has other clients and other things to do in life. She may not respond first all the time. But making the move beyond the adult chat room is the next stage in determining if you really love her and possibly going further.

Consider It

At this point you have a camgirl who has gotten to know you and you love. Do you really want to move further? There are a lot of issues with this such as being in different locations, her being a camgirl, and many other things. For example, a lot of men have trouble when they realize that a camgirl will have cybersex relationships with other men.

If you still want to move forward, keep reading.

What To Do Now?

We recommend that you straight forward tell her you are interested in her after at least a few months of contact. She should know you pretty well before you move forward with this. If there is no existing relationship it will be quite hard to do anything.

Bring up the conversation of dating in a straight forward manner. Tell her you are interested in her as a person and not just a camgirl. You want to date her. That being said, you have to be very clear here that you want to date her as a real girlfriend. You don't want to cross the lines into paying for sex. You will get hurt and in most locations that is illegal.

What you can hope for is that your time spent getting to know her was well spent. At the same time, prepare yourself for failure. Falling in love with a camgirl is much like falling in love with a stripper was before the internet existed. They are someone who is paid to make you feel good, that can sometimes lead to crossed wired.